Telltale Signs Your Wife May be Cheating
Do you have reason to believe your wife may be cheating? Whether it's growing distance between you, strange phone calls at odd hours, or something else... if your gut tells you that something is "off," it's worth looking into. Best case scenario, your hunch was off the mark, and now you've opened up an honest dialogue about your relationship and where things are headed. Worst case, you were right to think she might be fooling around on the side... but at least now that you know the truth, you can begin to take steps toward a better life for yourself.
Below, some possible signs your husband or wife is cheating:
She's going out without you a lot more, with "new friends" you've never met.
If a wife is sneaking around on her husband, it's a lot easier to cover her tracks when the lies are about people he's never met and has zero chance of talking to. And in fact, she may have fallen into a new circle of friends at the same time the "other man" entered her life. A new job or social activity often brings new acquaintances along with it... and if things are problematic at home, certainly new romantic relationships can develop as a kind of side diversion. Pay close attention to your wife's comings and goings. Maybe even casually suggest that you meet some of her new friends sometime, just to gauge her reaction. If she's not cheating, then this could be a way to become more involved in her life in a positive way. So ask questions and show interest, in a friendly, non-accusatory way, until you have actual proof of infidelity.
She's no longer interested in having sex with you, yet she still makes an effort to look good.
If your wife is turning down your sexual advances, it doesn't necessarily mean she's cheating on you. After all, stress, fatigue, poor health, unhappiness and increasing emotional remoteness between you can all have a negative impact on the female libido. However, there are other clues to look for. A wife who's feeling unsexy will often literally "let herself go," while a wife who's getting action from someone other than her husband will still be very concerned with being physically attractive. Does your wife still schedule her bi-monthly bikini wax? Wear sexy undergarments? (Pay attention to what's in the laundry pile.) Does she spritz on perfume, dress to accentuate her best features, and carefully apply makeup before she heads out with "friends"? What about working out and dieting? All of these behaviors point to a healthy interest in looking appealing to the opposite sex... and if it's not with the intention of attracting you, her husband, then you're right to wonder just who she's primping for.
She's become secretive about her online activities.
When you approach as she's typing an email, does she quickly shut the browser? Has your wife begun a new practice of deleting all cookies so you won't be able to track her surfing activities? (Check your computer's browser preferences if you aren't sure.) Does she text message frequently, but get defensive when you ask who she's talking to? What about new email addresses - has she abandoned the "family email account" in favor of her own, private email account with a password that you're not privvy to? All of these behaviors raise suspicion in the cheating department. Technology is an easy outlet for pent up sexual frustration and the "remoteness" seems to lessen inhibitions. A bored housewife who feels unappreciated by her husband might derive satisfaction in sending pictures of her naked body to her lover via cell phone or email. Keep your eyes and ears pealed for any unusual or guarded behavior as it relates to internet activities.
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